Going through a Breakup can give u so much pain that you never dreamed of. I recently had a breakup and I am still trying to get over him. But these are some stuff that helped me get over him.
1. Face It: First of all, you have to face the ultimate reality that you have broken up. He is not gonna come back and it’s time you stopped waiting for him. You have to let go of him and accept the situation as it is. Tell yourself the bitter truth and stop thinking of getting him back.
2. No Contact Rule: Now that you have got a hold of the facts, its time to do something about the pain. You miss him like hell and there’s just no way to stop it. Well, there is, you just have to follow certain Rules. The first and most important is to break all contacts. Delete his contact number, remove him from Facebook or any other social media that could remind you of him. Its hard at first but trust me, its the most efficient.
3. Music Therapy: Listen to these songs to get over him:
- Shout Out To My Ex– This Song helps you to realize that the break up was not the worst thing after all.
- Ugly Heart– This is one of my Favorite. It has everything u need to hate him…
- Jar Of Hearts- When the anger has settled a bit, listen to this to make sure he doesn’t deserve any more chances.
- Cry Me a River– This is another one of my favorites as it has all the spitefulness to the one who left you.
- Part Of Me– This has been and will be the Girl Power Song. It gave me a lot of strength to fight the situation.
4. Revenge: Now that we have got a hold of us, it’s time to take revenge. The best form of Revenge is SUCCESS. Instead of finding a successful guy as a rebound, it’s better to excel at your work at becoming Successful instead. He will regret forever for leaving you.
5. Travel Therapy: There is no therapy better than Travel Therapy. Pack your bag and make that trip you always wanted to do. Trek through wilderness or party in far away land. See new places, meet new people. Get your mind off the breakup.
6. Hobbies: There were so many hobbies you wanted to pursue but couldn’t. Now you can, you have all the time in the world. Dance till your feet hurt. Sing your heart out.. Go to that pottery class. Learn Sign Language. Learn To Code.. Get Better at PhotoShop. You can do anything, you can be anything.
I Hope these ideas help you get through the tough time and get you back on your feet.
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